At 2pm on the 4th December my amazing, talented son started his final journey to the crematorium. After a short but beautiful service his coffin was carried to the hearse. I will never forget that day.
Billy was a happy, naughty but never boring 24 year old that was loved by everyone he met. He was a carer for adults with learning difficulties, a part time model and an aspiring photographer- and then he wasn’t.
On the 9th November Billy and his girlfriend wanted to go out and celebrate his 24th birthday but due to lockdown they couldn’t. Instead they opted to have a few drinks mixed with a little MDMA. This proved to be fatal for Billy but thankfully his girlfriend was fine.
Within hours of them both taking the MDMA Billy had a seizure and an ambulance was called. He was rushed to Worthing hospital and taken to ITU. I will never forget that phone call, it will haunt me for the rest of my life.
When I got to the hospital and was finally able to see Billy he was lying in a pool of his own blood. I was only able to hold his hand as 4 nurses were trying to stop the flow of blood from his nose, ears and eyes as his blood had stopped clotting. Billy spent 2 days in ITU and despite the best care and dedication of the staff things were not looking good. We as a family found ourselves having to make the heart breaking decision to get Billy transferred to London even though he was unlikely to survive the journey, it was his only hope of living.
That evening Billy made the journey to Kings and against the odds he survived the journey and began the frozen plasma treatment. We were told even with this if he survived his organs were failing, he would lose fingers and toes, blood was now clotting on the inside and was attacking his stomach and we had no idea what damaged had been done to his brain. On the morning of 12th November 3 days after his 24th birthday my beautiful boy suffered a cardiac arrest and they just couldn’t bring him back.
He had taken the same drug as his girlfriend. He had taken the drug recreationally before. He was not a drug addict. It was tragic.
He leaves behind a devastated family, friends and all of those who lives were made better just because he was part of it. The loss is immeasurable.
"I would like to thank Brian from Drug Watch Foundation for the visit to school. The talk was extremely helpful and the students found it very informative.
Brian managed to engage students that would often struggle and pose a challenge to visitors. Brian built an excellent relationship with these students and due to this the students taken a wealth of knowledge away with them. This has armed them with the tools to make the correct choices when it comes to drugs and alcohol.
A selection of students worked in a smaller group with Brian and completed some fantastic written work about the dangers of cannabis.
The booklets have proved very useful in lessons and as resources for the students. We cannot wait to receive the updated versions in 2019. Thank you again."
Samantha Jolly (Teaching Assistant L2)
The New Broadwalk Pru - Salford
"I thought the workshops went really well.
Brian had a captive audience throughout the day. The way he delivered the sessions was perfect for the students we have. Leigh seemed to enjoy the time at the school as well.
I would love to have you support us again in the future as the feedback from the students was overwhelmingly positive.
Thanks to Brian and Leigh for their time and patience, especially when one of the students was sick in the classroom. Too much cake at break time!
I hope to work with you all again soon."
Lee Berry
Darwen Enterprise Studio, Lancashire
"As a school we have been extremely grateful for the opportunity to receive and use the Drug Awareness booklets. We do a lot of work on drugs so that our students are able to make informed decisions. We have used the booklets in a variety of ways, for example some have been made available in a reference section in the library.
The booklets were well received by staff and students alike, good clear booklets which informs but does not frighten students, they are always keen to know the laws and dangers of drugs which is highlighted in the booklets, Thank you."
Marshland High School, Cambridge
"I write to thank you very much for donating the Drugs Awareness booklets for our students.
Please be assured that they will be used during our Social Studies lessons where we teach drugs awareness as part of the scheme of work.
A copy of the booklet will be given to each student to take home. Valuable resources such as these are highly appreciated as they contain up-to-date information and can be given to the students to read repeatedly in order to update their knowledge and understanding of this very serious issue."
Mrs N Macleod
Chessington Community College
"I thought the sessions went very well and the idea of getting the students to participate by way of the murals made the sessions more interactive and meant that they were able to express their own views as well as listening to ours. It also meant we could circulate amongst the group and on a number of occasions relevant questions were asked which could then be broadcast across the wider group when providing an answer."
Thanks for the opportunity to attend and we will be keen to attend other events that you are organising."
Simon Price, BA (Hons), FHEA (Lecturer)
Institute of Policing, University of Chester
The workshop was excellent. It was engaging and the children were interested from the beginning. It was great to watch their knowledge and understanding develop as the session went on and how keen they were to follow and implement the key messages in their own lives. Angie did a great job and we are so pleased we arranged this visit.
Ben McKean (St James Primary School in Farnworth, Bolton)
"Can you please pass on a massive thank you to Brian for all his hard work with our students yesterday. We really appreciate the time and how important the messages are that you are giving to our young people.
Look forward to working with your organisation again in the future."
Karen Halliwell
Ladybridge High School - Bolton
"The workshops were informative yet done in a friendly, respectful way that earned the pupils trust straight away."
A.Mahon
Parrenthorn High School - Prestwich
"Engaged pupils immediately, mutual respect, friendly delivery but focused on a strict message. Answered all questions openly and honestly, really useful session."
E.Biggar
Parrenthorn High School - Prestwich
“We have received support from the DW Foundation for the past three years.
Over this time Brian, the DWF representative, has engaged and delivered sessions to 825 young people.
The sessions are informative and impactful. They enable students to ask questions in a safe environment.
Brian uses a range of different delivery methods which engage the students and the feedback from the students is always extremely positive.
Needless to say we have booked the DW Foundation again next year for another 275 students.”
J.Fahey
Whalley Range High School - Manchester
"Thank you for organising the session yesterday. The sessions were informative, materials and Q/A breaks gave pupils answers to a broad range of issues surrounding drugs, the law and how they change peoples lives.
Our Speaker was very positive in response to ideas and work from the groups. On the whole the students learned a lot from their experience. Thank you for the good work you do for this charity – It is a great resource for us to use in education."
N.Tebbatt
Lutterworth High School, Lutterworth, Leicestershire
"We can’t thank you enough for the leaflets.
Nowadays there is not much support for PSHE in schools and your leaflets were gratefully received.
There are lots of problems young people face and drug awareness is an important issue.
The leaflets are really well produced and the students have found them useful. Thank you for producing them."
Robert Kelly Head of PSHE
Ashlawn school in Coventry
We were fortunate to be able to secure a day's workshops from Drug Watch Foundation which enabled every year group in school to benefit from an hour long workshop with one of their presenters.
The presenter we worked with came from medical background and had a confident and approachable manner with our students.
She was able to adapt her resources and presentation to meet the needs of each year group and feedback from our students and in particular our sixth formers was very positive.
Mrs M Bennett - Assistant Headteacher
Maghull High School, Sefton, Merseyside